A Dozen Facts that can Dramatically Change Your Life in 2013 for Good!

May be you already know these; but did not do anything. Then, do it now. Or you do not know these, then know now and act! Time is today. If you wait for tomorrow, you may only keep waiting!!

Here below are the facts, which can truly revolutionize the way you have been living your life; add glitter and glamour  freedom and fragrance! Factually, these apply in all seasons and all time. Since, we humans look for special occasions to kick start, let us use today, 01-01-2013 as an opportunity to imbibe and implement these!

  1. Your world starts from you and would end with you.
    So, only you are responsible for what you do and its consequences; not your gene, zodiac sign, stars, forefathers or luck! Your heaven and hell exist in your world, nowhere else. So you get what your doings are worthy of.
  2. Your world is exactly the way, you want to see.
    You want to see glass of water half full, you would see it that way (positive way); you insist on seeing it half empty, nobody can stop you (your negative way). You believe your world is beautiful; you would find thousands things that would make you blissful. You think it is ugly; there would be hundreds incidences to unnerve you.
  3. If God is everywhere, then God has to be inside you too.
    When would you realize your infinite godly power? If you don’t even now, you would be eventually nothing but goddamned.
  4. Your fortune is not fixed at any place in universe, by any of prior events that would make things happen to you in a predetermined way.
    It is a myth that it gets fixed by date and time of your birth or any sign or star. Never allow your confidence that “it is you, who is continuously shaping your destiny by what and how you do” gets shaken, regardless of crisis or conflicts, you may face.
  5. You get = what you give.
    This is the greatest equation of nature; you can’t defy it whatever you do. You often tend to misunderstand this and hence miserable. If you make someone happy, happiness would chase you. But, if you hurt, you would also get hurt. It applies to every aspect of your life.
  6. Rules of Nature are exactly same, regardless of your status.
    Nature can only identify “plus (+)” and “minus (-)” and it cannot differentiate or discriminate between strong or weak, rich or poor, famous or failed etc. Formers in each of these pairs do right or positive things and hence, Nature helps and latter ones generally do negative things, so nature hurts. The rules that apply to Bill Gates or Barack Obama, also apply to you.
  7. Unlike micro level (particle or sub-particle), at macro level positive thoughts or karmas attract positive ones and repel negative ones. Vice versa is also true.
    Therefore, hopes would bring you happiness; worry would only bring you woes. Why you often hear “love for all”, because then you would be liked and loved by all. Hate would only increase hatred.
  8. Our very existence is contingent to presence of positive and negative, good and bad, right and wrong.
    These would always co-exist in pairs. Importance of pleasure does not come without pain; relevance of day light comes from darkness in night. Crucial is to hold positives and keep negatives away. You can manage this well, when you accept this fact, respect positives and don’t react against negatives.
  9. Your past memories consist of 2 components – information and emotions. It is past emotions, which is cause of your pains or problems.
    Past information is important to build your knowledge and intellect. Past emotions bring you envy, ego, anger, anxiety, lust, greed…
    A morning newspaper has tremendous value till you gather information and your emotions get evoked. You would retain information, since it is valuable; but you would trash newspaper after reading and that is what you need to do with your earlier emotions! Emotions are relevant only in the present!!
  10. Path, by which you go up, is always different than the path by which you come down or fall.
    Therefore, make sure that you are worthy, before you take upward journey. Choose your steps mindfully; otherwise your fall could be very steep.
  11. Your technical or hard skills are no more than computer hardware, which is only run by software of “your consciousness and character, moral and ethical values”.
    Normally, we focus on hardware, making software frail. So, most end up with keep applying patches and make it pathetic! Both needs to be equally strong, but with a bias towards latter and have to go hand in hand.
  12. When you excel, you get exposed to adversity! If you become gullible, adversity would grip you.
    History is privy to innumerable instances. Bill Clinton, at his peak during 2nd US Presidential term, Tiger Woods or Rajat Gupta could not escape this.
    But, you CAN, if you follow these dozen facts with all fervor and force!

So, life in 2013…

  • Presents to you infinite possibilities.
  • Helps you to make a real difference.
  • Tells you are uniquely empowered by nature.

Whether you believe or not, these facts are verified and re-verified and hence would stand tall. You make a Choice – whether you want to believe these and add life in year 2013 and beyond or otherwise, just add another calendar year to your life!


24 responses to “A Dozen Facts that can Dramatically Change Your Life in 2013 for Good!”

  1. Ajay Koul Avatar
    Ajay Koul

    Pertinent to all indeed. Thanks for sharing.

    1. Murli Avatar

      It is my pleasure! I am indeed thankful to you for your affirmation!!

  2. Arun Sadhashivan Avatar

    Dear Mr. Lohia,

    Thank you for this very inspiring message. 2013 will be a hugely important year for our company Holland Haptics. We will introduce a product to the market that will bring touch to the internet. And the facts mentioned by you are very relevant and actionable to us.

    Happy new year to you and your family.


    1. Murli Avatar

      I am indeed thankful to you for your very valuable and encouraging views and feedback!

      I profusely wish excellent success for your company and its product/s!!

      My best wishes for 2013 for you and your family.

  3. Murli Lohia Avatar
    Murli Lohia

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    Monica Sharma has sent you a message.
    Date: 1/04/2013
    Subject: RE: A Dozen Facts that can Dramatically Change Your Life in 2013 for Good!

    Simple yet amazing facts

    1. Murli Avatar

      I am impressed with yr concise but precise feedback! Thanks!!

  4. Murli M. Lohia Avatar
    Murli M. Lohia

    From: Mohamed Elawny [mailto:melawny@shaw.ca]
    Sent: Sunday, January 06, 2013 1:47 AM
    To: ‘Murli Lohia’
    Subject: RE: A Dozen Facts that can Dramatically Change Your Life in 2013 for Good!

    Very wise and an excellent reminder of the basics of values and relationships. Thank you.

    1. Murli Avatar

      I am very thankful of your valuable views!

  5. Rudra Avatar

    I’ve no words to tell you how accurate and precise all your 12 points are. In-fact, I would say you must have entered my mind without my knowledge and seized all these thoughts!! Just kidding… 🙂 but these are exact my beliefs that I love scattering all over the world…

    Thanks for reviving these in my mind!!

    Great reading!! 🙂

    1. Murli Avatar

      Your realization is truly rewarding! I am very thankful for your views and what you are doing with such beliefs!!

      I am sure that these facts would add shine to your character and personality.

  6. Santosh Avatar

    Very nice thoughts. Thank you.

    1. Murli Avatar

      I appreciate your valuable comments!

  7. Murli Lohia Avatar
    Murli Lohia

    From: Maria Gandhi [mailto:mariagandhi@gmail.com]
    Sent: Tuesday, January 08, 2013 3:53 AM
    To: Murli Lohia

    Subject: Re: A Dozen Facts that can Dramatically Change Your Life in 2013 for Good!

    very well written, simple facts which we often forget…..
    thank you for sharing.. very inspirational… hopefully I implement it all the time 🙂

    1. Murli Avatar

      I don’t know how to thank you for your commendable views!

      You are awakened and conscious; so I am sure you would be able implement these!

  8. Murli Lohia Avatar
    Murli Lohia

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    Lyndon Berchy has sent you a message.
    Date: 1/09/2013
    Subject: RE: A Dozen Facts that can Dramatically Change Your Life in 2013 for Good!

    Dear Murli

    Always appreciate your messages – I wish you and your family a Happy New Year


    1. Murli Avatar

      I am very pleased to hear from you!

      Many thanks for your kind words for my messages.

      My best of New Year wishes too for you and your family. May 2013 bring you great accomplishments, wealth and values.

  9. Murli Lohia Avatar
    Murli Lohia

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    Sachin Rasane has sent you a message.
    Date: 1/08/2013
    Subject: RE: A Dozen Facts that can Dramatically Change Your Life in 2013 for Good!

    Gud one Sir!!

    Thanks and Best Regards,

    1. Murli Avatar

      Thanks! I am happy that you like it.

  10. Chetan Avatar

    Dear Sir,

    Thanks for sharing these facts of life with us . Its very inspiring and practical. It has already given a boost to my self kicking mechanism.

    Take care,
    Best Regards,

    1. Murli Avatar

      I am pleased to receive your valuable feedback and views! I am sure that your positive intakes would help to put you into higher orbit of growth and accomplishments!!

  11. Priya Avatar

    sorry sir i am reading it too late but still i can follow it from now 😀 I want to ask you about 7th point you mentioned that love all all will love you back but what if we are giving so much love to some person but we are not getting back from it? still we love them but it hurts a lot. Is we should continue or leave it rather? they get jealous, they get angry when i am successful but i love them still they talk at my back but i still love them. And another case is when some boy and girl love each other they continue their relation for years and after few years one want to broke up why? The another is continuously giving love then why another wants to broke up? All points are very perfect sir and i am gonna follow this all specially 8th point is very very nice. And yes god is within us we need to just discover it and not invent it 🙂 Boosted UP!!! Thumbs UP 🙂

    1. Murli Avatar

      Thanks a lot for your views comments and questions! Thanks a lot to give opportunity to share my thoughts.

      On 7th point, “Loving all” is a positive thing; but if “you are expecting love back while giving it; otherwise it hurts you” is negative. This negative thought would cancel your positive one of love and resultant is a neutral state! So, how would you get love back? Just love with no expectation, let it be pure in its form and see the effect!

      On another question of boy and girl relationship, one of the two wanting to break up – do you believe this happens all of a sudden one fine morning? Something ought to have gone wrong in prior period, when one of the two might have given signal to the other that all is not well. Never believe that if a problem has occurred between the two, both are not at fault. One might have triggered it and has a bigger share; but other can’t say or feel I have done nothing. To an extent 2nd person is also responsible. Now, it you don’t recognize this problem in the relationship, it can’t be resolved or retrieved and you still want to love, your love converts into obsession. You would obviously not get desired result. I can’t imagine how love of one party can be real, when relationship with second has cracked! If both can’t reconcile, then they should move on with respective lives separately!!

      1. Priya Avatar

        Oh that was very gr8 to understand sir thank you so much now i will be able to make people understand who have made such mistakes and also i wont make such mistakes 🙂 Loving unconditionally it the real fact then only we can get real love thats true 🙂

        1. Murli Avatar

          Thanks for your understanding and thoughtfulness! Please take it forward.

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